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Thomas Stelling

NARM training 2018/19+2021
Trainer, Coach, Mediator
Speaks English, German
Certified Trainer since 2014

Born in 1967 in the North of Germany.
Always interested in social change with an ambition to be the change I want to see in the world. But neither studying social sciences, history, and the influence of non-governmental organizations and globalization nor afterward working in the consulting business made me happy ...

In 2004 I encountered Nonviolent Communication (NVC) and met Marshall Rosenberg in Switzerland. Since then, I learned especially from Beate Ronnefeldt, Markus Sikor (Fischer), Kelly Bryson, Monika Flörchinger, Laurence Reichler, and many others.

Since 2009 I run yearlong NVC programs around Lake Constance. I love supporting people for some years in their personal (and sometimes also professional) development, offering also "Empathic Coaching," "NVC Mediation," and "NVC Leadership."

Apart from trainings, I coach and mediate people — and support social organizations in team development or organizational development.

I am also deeply inspired by Thomas Hübl (Transparent Communication/Collective Trauma) and Laurence Heller (Developmental Trauma), and I value especially the work of Otto Scharmer (Theory U/Presencing) and Frederic Laloux (Reinventing Organizations).


  • Conflict Transformation
  • Counseling and Therapy
  • Family and Interpersonal Relationships
  • Leadership (including organizational culture and executive coaching)
  • Social Change
  • Spirituality and Inner Work

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