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Sync Cards

同步卡 / Sync Cards

麥明珊 / Ming Shan Mak

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Since the launch of the "Connecting & Communicating Cards" in 2021, we've received feedback from many friends who found the cards helpful in recognizing their emotions and needs.

This small tool has also helped them deepen their relationships with their children and partners, and gain a better understanding of everyone's inner thoughts and desires.

Those who participated in our online workshops, in particular, gained a deeper understanding of how to engage in effective "Connecting & Communicating," and the elements and qualities that support expressing and listening through non-violent communication.

Furthermore, friends who joined book clubs or practice groups shared that with guidance and companionship, they were able to connect more closely with themselves, become aware of their inner emotions and needs, and approach situations from a broader perspective.


🌱 But life isn't always easy...

However, when life gets too busy, exhausting, or when not feeling well physically, even if one remembers the four components of non-violent communication—

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—in principle, one might momentarily forget the elements and qualities that facilitate "Connecting & Communicating" in practice.


💡 Since we can't be by your side at all times...

Since we can't be by your side at all times,

why not create some tools to accompany you?

And thus, the idea for the "Sync Cards" was born!

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📦 What's inside each box?

Each box of "Sync Cards" contains 20 vocabulary cards and one instruction card.

In addition to the four components of non-violent communication:

ObservationFeelingsNeedsRequest

the cards also include vocabulary related to other non-violent communication elements and qualities, such as Presence, Awareness, and Connection.

The explanations on each card are written based on the core principles of non-violent communication, augmented by insights from my years of learning and practicing this approach.

My hope is that these cards will help you understand the meaning of each "Sync Card" and support and accompany you in your "Connecting & Communicating" journeys.


🌿 Using the "Sync Cards"

For those using the "Sync Cards" for the first time, we invite you to carefully read the vocabulary and explanations on each card.

If you encounter any unfamiliar terms, we recommend reading Dr. Marshall B. Rosenberg's "Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life" or other books on non-violent communication for further understanding.

We suggest using them in conjunction with the "Connecting & Communicating Cards" for more in-depth "Connecting & Communicating"!


🎨 Special Thanks

Thank you again to #大力冰堂 for the exquisite illustrations!

Instagram @ dai_lik_munch


❤️ Learn More

To learn more about connecting with children, please visit:

Facebook @ 與孩同步

or

Instagram @ myselfandmychild

由2021年推出“連結•對話卡”至今,收到不同的朋友回饋說這套卡能幫助他們覺察情緒和需要,亦能透過這小工具,加深與孩子、伴侶的關係,更能了解大家內心的想法與渴求。

特別是同時參與了線上工作坊的朋友,對於如何進行有效“連結•對話”,以及有哪些要素和特質幫助自己以非暴力溝通方式去表達和聆聽,也有更多的了解。

另外,無論是參與讀書會或是共修的朋友,也表示在帶領和陪伴下,更能一步步與自己連結,覺察內在的情緒和需要,幫助自己以更廣闊的角度看事情。

只是有時生活太忙、太累,或是身體狀態不太好時,頭腦上仍然記得非暴力溝通的四要素:觀察、感受、需要、請求,可實際使用時,或會暫時忘了有哪些要素和特質能幫助我們進行“連結•對話”。

既然不能每時每刻陪伴大家
那不如推出一些小工具陪伴大家吧!

於是“同步卡”的想法就這樣誕生!

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每盒“同步卡”共有20張詞彙卡及一張使用說明,除了非暴力溝通的四要素:觀察、感受、需要、請求,亦包含其他非暴力溝通要素和特質的相關詞彙,例如臨在、覺察、連結等,每張卡上的文字解說也是按非暴力溝通的核心,再加上我這幾年學習和實踐非暴力溝通的得著而寫成,希望能幫助大家理解每張“同步卡”的意義,支持和陪伴大家進行“連結•對話”。

第一次使用“同步卡”的朋友,邀請你細閱每張卡上的詞彙和解說。遇到不明白的詞彙,建議可閱讀馬歇爾•盧森堡博士所著的《非暴力溝通 愛的語言》一書,或其他非暴力溝通相關的書籍了解更多。

建議與“連結•對話卡”一起使用,作更深入的“連結•對話”!


再次感謝 #大力冰堂 的精美插圖!
Instagram @ dai_lik_munch


想了解更多與孩同步,歡迎瀏覽
Facebook @ 與孩同步

Instagram @ myselfandmychild


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《同步卡》除了涵蓋非暴力溝通的四大要素(觀察、感受、需要、請求),還加入了臨在、覺察、連結等核心概念,幫助你在日常生活中更自然地實踐真誠溝通。