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title: "Choice - Center for Nonviolent Communication"
description: "Choice - A field guide for navigating the polarization of our world and living interdependently. Choice explores navigating polarization through Marshall Rosenberg’s principles, emphasizing self-responsibility and collaboration. Authored by Kathleen Macferran, Jared Finkelstein"
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date: "2026-09-18T07:55:15+00:00"
language: "en-US"
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#  Choice

#  A field guide for navigating the polarization of our world and living interdependently

Kathleen Macferran, Jared Finkelstein; German edition translated by Nadine Helm and Janne Hanoun Ellenberger

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Choice is a pocket-sized guidebook about creating a reflective space where the reader can explore choices and philosophical perspectives that go beyond right and wrong and into the realm of interdependent relationship. Based upon the key differentiations and principles of Marshall Rosenberg's Nonviolent Communication™, this book provides a rigorous investigation of the life-serving motivation embedded in concepts which sometimes appear as polar opposites. Through differentiation and nuanced exploration of these concepts, light is shed on the life-serving purpose at both ends of a seeming continuum between ideas. Readers are invited to apply, on a personal level, a consciousness that leads to self-responsibility, connection and collaboration.

This second edition includes a new appendix giving an overview of Nonviolent Communication, as well as a new appendix outlining an inquiry process that readers can use to work with the concepts in the book to discover ways to apply those concepts to their relationships and day to day lives.

Choice will be of benefit to individuals, community leaders, city councils, schools, and organizations in their work with conflict resolution, more effective communication, decision-making, etc.

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### CHOICE: Reiseführer zur Navigation durch die Polarisierung unserer Welt und für ein Leben in wechselseitiger Bezogenheit \[German\]

**By Kathleen Macferran and Jared Finklestein**

*„Choice“* ist ein Wegweiser im Taschenformat, der einen Raum für Refl exion schafft. Hier können die Leser\_innenEntscheidungen und philosophische Perspektiven erkunden, die über das Konzept von Richtig und Falsch hinausgehen, hinein in den Bereich wechselseitiger Beziehungen. Basierend auf den Schlüsselunterscheidungen und Prinzipien von Marshall Rosenbergs Gewaltfreier Kommunikation™ lädt dieses Buch zu einer gründlichen Auseinandersetzung mit Konzepten ein, die manchmal als gegensätzliche Pole erscheinen. Durch eine differenzierte Erkundung wird der jeweils lebensbejahenden Zweck an beiden Enden eines scheinbaren Kontinuums zwischen diesen Konzepten beleuchtet. Die Leser\_innen sind eingeladen, auf persönlicher Ebene ein Bewusstsein anzuwenden, das zu Selbstverantwortung,Verbundenheit und Zusammenarbeit führt. *„Choice“* ist für Einzelpersonen, Gemeinschaften, Schulen und Organisationen bei ihrer Arbeit zur Konfl iktlösung und für eine effektivere Kommunikation von Nutzen.

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