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title: "Self-Connection: Observation as an Insight Practice - Center for Nonviolent Communication"
description: "Rob Eames, Rob Eames"
url: "https://www.cnvc.org/learn/events/self-connection-observation-as-an-insight-practice-2026-11-04-12-00-00"
date: "2026-09-19T13:31:42+00:00"
language: "en-US"
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#   Self-Connection: Observation as an Insight Practice

##  Noticing the beliefs and thoughts that shape our experiences

 By: **Rob Eames**

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 Wednesday, Nov 04, 2026 12:00 PM —

 Wednesday, Nov 18, 2026 1:30 PM

 English

 Recurring event

 **Timezone:** America/New_York

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#### **Scheduling** - this workshop will be held on 3 consecutive Wednesdays.

# Self-Connection: Observation as an Insight Practice

We experience events through the lens of our beliefs, assumptions, expectations, judgments, and stories.

This workshop offers a practical framework for exploring the relationship between what happens, the meaning we make of it, and the emotions that arise as a result.

Through guided reflection and structured exercises, participants will learn how to distinguish between observable facts and the thoughts, beliefs, and interpretations that shape their experience. This recurring process leads to greater self-awareness, emotional clarity, self-compassion, and choice.

# Where We'll Focus

## Observation: Separating Facts from Elaborations

Learn to distinguish between:

- What actually happened
- The thoughts and interpretations that followed
- The beliefs that influenced those interpretations
- The emotions that emerged as a result

## Understanding Elaborations

Explore common forms of mental elaboration, including:

- Judgments
- Assumptions
- Predictions
- Generalizations
- Mind reading
- Explanations
- Comparisons
- Labels and identities

Develop the ability to notice these processes without immediately believing them.

## Exploring Beliefs

Discover how beliefs influence perception and emotional experience.

We'll explore beliefs about:

- Ourselves
- Other people
- Relationships
- The world

Participants will investigate how these beliefs were learned and how they continue to shape present-day experiences.

## Emotions as Information

Learn how thoughts and beliefs contribute to emotional experiences.

We'll explore:

- The relationship between beliefs, thoughts, and emotions
- Why different people react differently to the same event
- How greater awareness creates more choice in how we respond

## Cultivating Self-Connection

Develop a compassionate and curious relationship with your inner experience.

Rather than trying to change yourself, you'll learn to understand yourself more deeply.

# Workshop Activities

Participants will engage in:

- Guided exercises
- Small-group or partner discussions
- Practical applications to real-life situations

# Who Is This Workshop For?

No prior experience is necessary.

This workshop is valuable for:

- Individuals seeking greater self-awareness
- Coaches, therapists, and helping professionals
- NVC practitioners
- Mindfulness practitioners
- Anyone interested in personal growth

# What You'll Take Away

By the end of the workshop, participants will have:

✓ A practical framework for self-observation

✓ Increased awareness of how beliefs shape experience

✓ Greater clarity about the connection between thoughts and emotions

✓ Tools for exploring emotional reactions with curiosity rather than judgment

✓ Increased capacity for self-understanding and self-compassion

✓ More freedom to choose responses rather than react automatically

# Why This Matters

Many of our emotional struggles are not caused solely by what happens.

They are influenced by the meaning we make of what happens.

When we learn to notice the beliefs and thoughts shaping our experience, we gain access to more clarity, understanding, self-compassion, and choice.

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### Related

- [ **Self-Empathy Circles** (Trainer Event 11-05-2026) ](https://www.cnvc.org/learn/events/self-empathy-circles-2026-11-05-17-00-00)
- [ **The Emotions Course for Couples** (Trainer Event 10-17-2026) ](https://www.cnvc.org/learn/events/the-emotions-course-for-couples-2026-10-17-10-00-00)
- [ **Rob Eames** (Trainer Profile) ](https://www.cnvc.org/trainers/rob-eames)

### TRAINING FOCUS:

- Conflict Resolution
- Counseling & Coaching
- General
- Health & Healing
- Intimate Relationships
- Mind-Body-Spirit

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