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Training Details

Me, myself and I: self empathy and our inner critic

Level(s)

Intermediate

Topic

General NVC

Format

In Person

Language

English

Trainer

Burke, Cath

Date and Time

Sat, Oct 5, 2019 — 10:00 to 17:30 — London (GMT)

Location

Actual venue to be confirmed

Details

Many of us come to NVC looking for a way to survive, improve, enjoy our relationships. I know I did. Then I discovered that the most important relationship is the one with myself. This is because when we relate empathically to ourselves we are empowered to calm our reactivity and take responsibility for meeting our needs. When we understand and acknowledge our needs we naturally have more inner resource to face challenging conversations and relationships ‘out there’.

This day will draw on Sarah Peyton’s research into NVC and neuroscience.

There’ll be an invitation to explore this theme somatically through up to 90 minutes of movement and dance. If you've never tried 'conscious dance' before you are especially welcome. No experience is necessary - you cannot do it wrong! And all ages, body shapes and fitness levels are welcome. Any doubts or queries call me for a chat.

You’ll be supported to take away skills to:

precisely name your feelings and needs in relation to a stimulus

identify self-sabotaging behaviours and core beliefs

get familiar with different parts of your inner life, such as the critic, the self, the witness

find your unique empathic voice that’s able to regulate your nervous system

Be warned! Relating to yourself with compassion could lead to a lack of inclination to judge yourself and others and an inability to worry. You may find yourself acting spontaneously rather than from fear-based habits and even enjoying each moment as it comes!

Testimonials:

"Before the first dance session I felt quite stressed and fearful as I’d never done this type of movement practice before. Initially I felt uncomfortable but after a minute I started stretching and began feeling more relaxed and calm. I closed my eyes and started to feel my body, every part of it. The deeper we went into dance the more connected I felt with myself. The more connected I felt with myself the closer I felt to the group. I loved the energy we all created there. It was the atmosphere of acceptance, joy and calmness. It was such a precious and powerful experience." Marianna

'Using movement in dance helped me to connect to someone when words felt inadequate. It gave me the opportunity to empathise and feel compassion towards him without the pressure of getting it ‘wrong’.’ Kate

Facilitator

Cath became a certified trainer with CNVC in 2014 and qualified as an Open Floor Movement Practice teacher (http://www.openfloor.org) in 2016 and is a member of the International Conscious Movement Teachers' Association (https://www.icmta.com). She has a Post Graduate Certificate in Education and a Foundation Training in Core Movement Psychotherapy. She does regular retreats in nondualism to support her NVC (http://beingmoved.com) and is a long-term Vipassana meditator. She has also worked in journalism and social work.

Prices

Individual rate: £80 (If you are a regular employee and you will be paying for the training from your own pocket).

Small Charity rate: £100 (If you work for a charity with fewer than 15 employees and they will pay for the training).

Public sector / Large Charity rate: £120 (If you work for a public sector organisation, such as a local council or the NHS, or a charity with more than 15 employees, and they will pay for the training).

Private sector rate: £150. (If you work for a profit making company and they will pay for the training).

If any of the above prices would make it difficult for you to attend, please contact Cath – concessions are available. To book on this training please email Cath Burke at the following address: info@empathymatters.net

This training is part of the NVC London Intermediate Training programme.

What is the NVC London Intermediate Training Programme?

The NVC London Intermediate training programme consists of 10 days of training across the course of a year, approx one day per month. Each training stands alone, so you can attend as few or as many of the days as you wish. The trainings will be facilitated by five London-based certified NVC trainers. Each trainer is facilitating two training days from the programme. So you will be able to enjoy the individual perspective, understanding and specialism of each trainer. We hope you will enjoy the richness of the themes and trainer input that this programme offers.

Intention

To deepen your understanding and experience of NVC in theory and practice. Sustained input over the course of a year will support you to integrate and embody NVC more fully in your life.

Facilitated by five London-based certified NVC trainers

Carolyn Davies, Cath Burke, Ceri Buckmaster, Daren De Witt and Tracy Seed.

NVC London Intermediate training dates, themes and facilitators for 2019

For more information about each individual training, please locate it on the events page of this website (copy and paste the following link into your browser) – https://nvc-uk.com/events/

9 Feb: Exploring empathy and empathy collision with NVC. Facilitated by Daren De Witt
9 Mar: NVC and power: beyond blame and shame. Facilitated by Ceri Buckmaster
6 Apr: Saying no with courage and care: responding to requests and demands. Facilitated by Cath Burke
11 May: Cultivating self empathy and self compassion with NVC. Facilitated by Tracy Seed
15 Jun: The living energy of needs: transforming the pain of unmet needs. Facilitated by Carolyn Davies
3 Aug: Transforming anger and shame with NVC. Facilitated by Daren De Witt
7 Sept: The living energy of needs: moving from protection to connection. Facilitated by Carolyn Davies
5 Oct: Me, myself and I: self empathy and our inner critic. Facilitated by Cath Burke
2 Nov: NVC approaches to formal and informal mediation. Facilitated by Ceri Buckmaster
7 Dec: Practical tools for developing NVC fluency. Facilitated by Tracy Seed

Each of the five trainers is administering their own trainings, so please book separately with them for any trainings that you wish to attend. This is to make our own administration easier amongst the five of us.

Who is it for

Prerequisite: Participants will be expected to have completed a two day foundation training in NVC, or equivalent. This will ensure a common foundation for intermediate level engagement and practice.

What to Bring

Paper and pen to make notes.
Comfortable clothes and trainers for moving in. Layers work well. Bare feet are fine too. Water bottle.

Registration, payment and deposit info.

Individual rate: £80.
Small Charity rate (fewer than 15 employees): £100.
Public sector / large charity rate (16 or more employees): £120.
Business/company rate: £150.
If any rate would prevent you from attending please contact Cath to discuss.
To book please email Cath Burke at info@empathymatters.net or contact her via her Empathy Matters website via the link immediately below

Links

Empathy Matters

The Center for Nonviolent Communication
9301 Indian School Rd NE Suite 204
Albuquerque, NM 87112-2861 USA
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