General NVC

The Three-Chair Model for Learning NVC Mediation: Developing Capacity for Mindful Presence, Connection, and Skill with NVC

By Ike Lasater & John Kinyon
With Julie Stiles

Over the past five years, in approximately 40 weekly classes per year and periodic weekend workshops, we (John and Ike) have engaged in a process of experimentation and discovery in creating a context for learning NVC mediation. This context, which we call the “three-chair model,” provides in-depth experiential education and is the most powerful framework we have come across for not only learning a Nonviolent Communication (NVC) approach to mediation, but also for accelerated development of core NVC skills, centered presence, and the capacity to heal and reconcile with self and others. In this article we offer our experience on creating a learning context, specifics on the approach we have developed, and the benefits people report from our trainings.

Compassionate Communication

Date: 
2009-09-23 20:00 - 2009-10-28 22:00
Preparation: 

To enrich the learning, participants may find it helpful to read Nonviolent Communication, A Language of Life by Marshall Rosenberg, PhD.

Course Description: 

Compassionate Communication, The Basics of Nonviolent Communication: This 6 class series provides the basics of NVC for use in expressing yourself, listening compassionately to yourself and to others. The class is interactive and provides an abundance of opporunities to work with real life situations; it'll give you sufficient information and practice to start using NVC in your daily life. Plus it's challenging, moving, supportive and fun. To enrich the learning, participants may find it helpful to read Nonviolent Communication, A Language of Life by Marshall Rosenberg, PhD.

Fee Requested: sliding scale $120 - $90

 

Nonviolent Communication Foudations - a daylong course

Date: 
2009-12-12 08:30 - 16:30
Preparation: 

Open to all, including those with previous NVC workshop experience. 

Course Description: 

Nonviolent Communication Foundations - a day-long course
Saturday, December 12, 2009
9
:30 am - 5:30 pm

Facilitator:  Rhonda Mills, CNVC Certified Trainer

Healing Arts Center, 2601 South Big Bend Boulevard, St. Louis, Missouri 63143. 

Fee:  $90; or $80 early bird discount.

Registration:  Call 314-647-8080 or register online at www.hacmassage.com.

NVC, based on the work of international peacemaker Dr. Marshall Rosenberg, is a process that helps us see our common humanity and a concrete set of skills we can practice to create aliveness, fulfillment, inner freedom, and thriving relationships.  NVC offers a way of relating to ourselves and others moment to moment that brings us fully present.  The process is relatively simple to learn, but like learning a foreign language, may take a few years to integrate fully.    

This foundations course includes NVC concepts, experiential exercises and practice of each mode of NVC (self-connection, honesty, and empathy). 

NVC is helpful for massage therapist and other health care practitioners as it allows one to cultivate and share the healing power of presence with clients.  The skills practiced in NVC can be directly applied to the communication between therapist and client, integrating healing language with healing arts. 

People around the world are using NVC skills to transform conflict, create harmony in their relationships, and build a world where everyone's needs are met through natural giving and receiving, and without the use of coercion or violence.  

 

Massage Therapy CEU's are available for this training. 

Building a Compassionate Justice System: An Introduction to Restorative Circles with Dominic Barter

Date: 
2009-11-14 09:00 - 2009-11-15 17:00
Course Description: 

Restorative Circles offer ways for individuals, families, groups and communities to establish connection, discover meaning and recover power on profound levels. They create a forum for connecting empathically across differences and reaching agreements that support safety and well-being, both personally and within society.

This systemic approach guides communities in choosing how they would like to respond to future conflict – proactively preventing or diminishing harm – while also giving participants a real-life experience of the practical power of nonviolence to seed understanding and change in challenging contexts.

Developed in the shanty towns, schools, courts and prisons of urban Brazil, Restorative Circles are being used in a wide variety of contexts and countries, where creating the conditions for social justice, group cohesion, resilient relationships and personal healing are recognized as interconnected and vital.

The Circles support dialogue rooted in open-hearted clarity and tangible power-sharing - calling us to rethink our view of and response to living with others, while engaging with the challenge of consciously strengthening community well-being. The results open up revolutionary possibilities for furthering a culture of peace.

In these dynamic two days, Dominic Barter will present the evolution and practice of this work, and its application to diverse areas of our personal and collective lives. Through hands-on exploration of key concepts, grounded in a step-by-step process and illustrated by real world examples, we’ll apply the learning to participants’ issues and increase our ability to see and act from our shared humanity. Finally, we’ll rehearse the development of this new resource in a community of which we are part.

This event will be filmed; you will have the choice to not appear on the videotape.

Dominic Barter began developing restorative practices and systems in the mid 1990s, inspired by the social complexity of Rio de Janeiro, his adopted home, and his study with Marshall Rosenberg in Nonviolent Communication. Since 2004 he has been the training program director and consultant to the Brazilian Justice Department’s Restorative Justice pilot projects, in collaboration with UNDP, UNESCO, the Special Secretariat for Human Rights, local communities and State Secretaries for Education. In 2008 Dominic was a keynote speaker at the International Conference on Restorative Practices. He coordinates the Restorative Justice Project for the international Center for Nonviolent Communication.

CO-CREATING THE RESOURCES FOR THESE EVENTS AND THIS WORK:

We are committed to making this work available to all who request it.

It is offered in the spirit of a gift.

There is no specific fee required in exchange for participation. We invite those who come to do so in the spirit of receiving a gift.

We see us all as sharing power capable of creating the conditions for the world we want to live in. To support the exercise of this power, information on the financial resources used in developing and presenting this work will be shared during the evening. We hope this will support those participants who so choose to contribute financially toward meeting the event's costs and supporting the on-going work.

For those interested, we also welcome contributions before the event, which help to offset upfront costs.

Modules 1, 2 & 3

Date: 
2010-02-13 02:00 - 2010-02-18 09:30

Module 3

Date: 
2009-11-21 02:00 - 2009-11-22 09:30

Module 2

Date: 
2009-11-14 02:00 - 2009-11-15 09:30

Module 1

Date: 
2009-10-10 02:00 - 2009-10-11 09:30

Presence and Connecting withOthers - NVC Deepening Workshop

Date: 
2009-10-18 08:00 - 15:00
Preparation: 

2 days of NVC training or equivalent

Course Description: 

People in distress are thirsty for empathy. Your ability to attend to a situation with care, focus, and without condemnation can make the difference between a breakdown and a breakthrough. Join us to deepen your ability to connect with others in all kinds of situations as the basis for more satisfying relationships.

Our time will be 20% presentation and 80% activities for learning and practic.

Fee requested: $90

(if the cost is a barrier, please contact Henry beforehand to discuss options)

Deepening Awareness

Date: 
2010-08-01 14:00 - 2010-08-15 14:00

The Center for Nonviolent Communication
5600 San Francisco Rd. NE Suite A
Albuquerque, NM 87109 USA
Tel: +1.505.244.4041 | Fax: +1.505.247.0414 | US Only: 800 255 7696

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