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Teapot and Bag: an NVC inner conflict process

A teapot and a bag with a giraffe in the middle!

While I was in Birmingham, UK last month I ran a training on NVC and Conflict. One of the exercises I led through was on inner conflict - how to mediate a conflict between two different strategies to enrich your life. For example: do I stay put in my house and enjoy my space and freedom where I am? Or do I move town to live in a community with like-minded people?

An NVC teapot

 

Giraffe and Jackal ears exercise

Participants at a recent NVC Foundation Training in Stourbridge, UK, demonstrating (l-r) Jackal out, Jackal in, Giraffe in, Giraffe out.

We've all hurt someone: Teaching NVC in Jail

Concord prison

This time I felt excited and curious about visiting the men of the ‘Khanti Outreach’ Buddhist meditation and study group at Concord state prison. Though I hadn’t been for nearly a year, I’d often thought about the men and how they were getting on with their lives, so it wasn’t a shock to see the walls and razor wire of the prison, or to be standing outside the reception waiting for a uniformed guard to find my name on a list and let me through a colossally heavy motorized magnetic door.

Back from India and Sri Lanka

Shantigarbha, Christa and Parag at Bhaja

Hi All, I just got back a few days ago from India and Sri Lanka. I'd been out there for three months since early December, when Christa and I ran trainings at Bhaja retreat centre, near Pune - see photos from my website: seedofpeace.org

Off to India and 2009 Training Dates Confirmed

Hi All,
We're excited to be off to India tomorrow morning. Christa is with me for the first month, then I stay on for another two, taking in Sri Lanka. Here's our schedule:

  • Dec 12 - 28, trainings at Bhaja retreat centre, near Pune, India
  • Jan 7 - 21, trainings at NVC Camp, Auroville, Pondicherry, India
  • Jan 22 - Feb 9, trainings in Colombo, Sri Lanka
  • Feb 9 - Feb 21, Solitary retreat, Sri Lanka
  • Feb 22 - March 1, Western Buddhist Order / TBM Order Convention, Bodhgaya, India

For more information about any of the trainings, click here

And we've confirmed some dates in the US and the UK for when I get back. Here they are:

In the USA:
  • March 21-22: Indianapolis, USA: ‘Deepening + Anger’ more info
  • March 27 -28: Newmarket, NH, USA: Basic Training more info
  • April 4-5: Portsmouth, NH, USA: Deepening + Anger more info
In the UK:
  • April 25-26: Birmingham, UK: Foundation Training more info
  • May 1: Stourbridge, UK: Evening Introduction more info
  • May 2-3: Stourbridge, UK: Foundation Training more info
  • May 16-17: Bristol, UK: Foundation Training for Parents more info
  • June 20-21: Birmingham, UK: Deepening + Conflict more info
  • June 27-28: Bristol, UK: Deepening + Empathy for Parents more info
  • July 11-12: Stourbridge, UK: Deepening + Empathy more info

Obama on Empathy

Hi there,

Recently I read something inspiring on empathy on the CNVC trainers' email list. It was a passage from Barack Obama's 'The Audacity of Hope' on the importance and nature of empathy. Gratitude to Alex Censor for posting it there.

There was also a link to a compilation of text and video clips of Obama speaking on the critical role of empathy in personal and international relations:

http://progressivespirit.com/empathy

I find it heartening that someone could get this clear on empathy and its importance, and apparently, is trying to 'walk the talk'.

The extract on empathy from 'The Audacity to Hope' follows.

Love and life, Shantigarbha

NVC and Buddhism article

I'm just celebrating the publication of an NVC article I've written
for the News site of the Buddhist Movement I'm part of - the FWBO
(Friends of the Western Buddhist Order / TBMSG in India). It's
entitled 'Heart-to-heart Connection', and you can find it here:

http://fwbo-news.org/index.html

I'm also celebrating the ongoing series of NVC articles I'm writing
for two UK magazines: 'Juno' (natural parenting) and 'Funky Raw' (raw
food). I've posted them on my website: www.seedofpeace.org (click on 'NVC Topics')

And I'm happy to say that I've been able to use most of the material
I've created for these articles in the book I'm currently writing on
NVC and Buddhism! For a preview of some of the material, take a look
at the FWBO News article above.

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